Happy Halloween! This week has been a little strange. It was nice to dress up, if even for little bit, and enjoy people around me. I feel like I am on vacation this week, despite the fact that I haven't even left Colorado. I think it is maybe the fact that I am learning how to take things in stride. I have a good cry now and again, which never happened back in Dallas. I would just suck it up and not let my "weakness" show. I disliked vunerability. But I am learning it is okay, not to be okay. Plus, it helps that I have someone to hold me in those moments. I try not to fight my tears (sometimes) and let myself just take in what I am feeling. Then after I go through that, I start making things happen. That is how I am handling my life now. And so far, it works. It becomes exhausting to try to hold it all together. So, here's to new methods and change!
This song always reminds me of my sister. She has the most diverse and random taste in music. I find my self listening to music that I wouldn't usually listen to just because she introduced me to it. This song is one that she played for a long time and I immdiately liked it. It is such a simple cover but so uniquely done.
I am an administrative assistant for a
very creative-type boss. I’m sure you can understand, then, that
balance is a very important part of my job. I am constantly accessing
the left side of my brain to organize and implement systems, analyze
situations, make decisions on the fly, and keep appointments – but I’m
naturally inclined to live from the right side of my brain. I maintain
calendars and correspondences, but I help write song lyrics and build
brands. I make phone calls and create spreadsheets, but I read
literature on my lunch breaks and play piano on my coffee breaks. I
coordinate, but I also create. It’s a very delicate balance, one I’m
still learning. My “admin” qualities are gifts and abilities, but my
intuitive side is the essence of who I am.
Because I’m naturally a creative, fun,
and spontaneous person, environment is important to me. I spent quite a
few months trying to be productive and building systems, schedules, and
bulletin boards with millions of “to-do” post-its. I found that while
the job was getting done, I was getting less and less content with the
state of my mind and my emotions. I came to find that because I spend
40+ hours a week in this office, the environment of my workspace was a
very important one: one that had to be filled with positivity and
inspiration.
I learned a valuable lesson through my
experience: making the most out of your day isn’t a productivity issue,
it’s a perspective issue. I can get a million things done for the sake
of productivity, but there are probably a lot of details I’ve overlooked
because my mind and my heart weren’t in it; I was just working for the
sake of speeding through the project. But I find that when I make sure
that I have the correct perspective, it makes a difference on my
productivity levels, encourages a more exact schedule, and brings the
very balance I strive to achieve.
I know that there are a lot of
twenty-something young women who are career-minded, very driven, and
probably a little frustrated. We turn to Pinterest and Twitter, other
blogs, and friendships to keep us entertained and we rush through our
work, the very tasks that our career requires, the career we work so
hard to build upon and maintain.
Here are some things to consider when
looking at your life as a “creative perfectionist”, to be sure that your
perspective is encouraging maximum productivity:
1. Check your atmosphere.
If you can’t sit back in your chair, look around, and feel relaxed,
there’s probably something about your workspace that is slowing you
down.
I
find that putting a desktop background with encouraging quotes or
pictures of beautiful places around the world really inspires me – I’ll
close the window I’m working in and see something motivational,
colorful, and fun, and it will jump start me into the next task.
I’ve
started keeping fresh flowers in my office, and try to embrace as much
natural/low light as possible. If fluorescent lighting is your only
hope, try having dark colored things on your desk to mute the brightness
of it. I also have a wickless candle – the vanilla scent makes me feel
warm and increases my comfort with my surroundings.
Music
really helps me keep going – if I’m feeling distracted, I’ll listen to
music in another language, or I’ll listen to movie soundtrack music.
It’s enough to keep me focused, but it also lifts my spirits and keep me
comfortable.
2. Schedule your day. Somehow,
and I’m still not sure how it happens, I’ll spend so much time on
catching up with my emails, or answering phone calls, and I’ll get
swamped immediately. But, like my dad always said when I begged him to
let me clean my room another time – “Jessica, it’s your choice: you can
break up the cleaning for 10 minutes a day, or you can spend 3 hours
cleaning it. You’ll be doing the same tasks either way, but one teaches
you the importance of maintenance.” It’s almost spooky how often this
applies to my everyday life. I can let the phone calls and emails pile
up for a couple of days and spend an hour or so getting everything done,
or I can check them every morning and spend 5 minutes on it. I use
Microsoft Outlook and break my day down into tasks. Each task requires a
specific amount of time (I overestimate, for the sake of staying close
to schedule), and I get a notification 5 minutes before it’s time to
move on. This helps me stay on task, and if I have extra time, I’m just
running ahead. It really gives me a perspective on how much more
efficient maintaining my tasks can be.
3. Take advantage of your free time. Most
people are hourly pay, with 8 hour shifts. The law requires that if you
are a full time, hourly employee, you get a 10 minute coffee break in
the morning, a one hour lunch, and a 15 minute coffee break in the
afternoon. Use these times to sit back and think, go outside to soak up
some vitamin E, or appreciate your favorite hot drink. Try keeping a
gratitude journal (writing 5 things you’re thankful for each day) or
keep a book at work to chisel away at on your break times. While it may
seem that working through your day keeps you focused, it’s a proven fact
that taking small breaks throughout your day will increase productivity
and decrease that sleepy feeling you get around 11:00am and 3:00pm.
At
the end of the day, the goal is not to have pretty flowers or a stack
of journals, the goal is to look around at your workspace, look forward
to your future, and look inward at your life and career, and smile. This
is a way to make yourself feel content so that you can work harder and
run faster. Perspective is so much more important than productivity, but
if you have the correct perspective, you’ll be able to do so much more
than you imagined.
A couple of posts ago, I talked about my all time favorite band: Relient K. This past week I talked to a friend about Matthew Thiessen and we listened to his solo stuff, and I just think he is so talented. He is probably one of my favorite lyricists. If you haven't heard any of this stuff, it is just incredible- shhh, just listen.
This past last week, I got another chance to visit my family and stay for my "big brother's" wedding! There were lots of tears and lots of laughing- so much so I couldn't breathe! The reception took place at my home back in Dallas and it was decorated so beautifully! here were such rich, deep purples and just a simple intimate seting with close friends and family. I am so happy for this couple and wish them the best of luck!
Today is my wonderful boyfriend's 23rd birthday! I wasn't able to spend his actual birthday with him because I am in Dallas for a wedding, but I we were able to celebrate it earlier this week. I am so glad he is in my life- he constantly challenges me and pushes me to be better. He is always making me laugh and is always thoughtful. I am so lucky to have him. :)
Andrew plays this one when we are in the car. It's cute and catchy and I've had it stuck in my head all day! It couln't be more appropriate for today. Happy Monday!
I absolutely love this song. Anytime I listen to it, it reminds me of Andrew. Does that make me a sap?..Maybe , but I don't care. Anyway- Ben Folds is such a great song writer- his music is always so cleverly written. Take a look!